Do You Have The Heart To Be in A Monogamous Relationship? - Too Much Game Ep 4

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Getting results with women is one thing. Being ready for what comes next is something else entirely. This episode is the one King Dre felt he had to drop early, because too many men are taking their first wins with women and running straight into situations they are not equipped to handle. And getting wrecked in the process.

The episode picks up where the heart conversation began. When a man who has never had much attention from women finally starts getting it, something dangerous can happen. He mistakes the beginning of the journey for the destination. He takes the first woman who cooperates, overlooks every red flag, skips the vetting, and wifes her up before he has developed the emotional foundation to handle what a real relationship actually requires. King Dre has watched it happen for eight years of coaching, and this episode is the intervention.

The truth laid out here is one most men are not ready to hear: a monogamous relationship with a woman you are serious about is harder than playing the field, not easier. It requires more of you, not less. Your insecurities, your emotional volatility, your inability to regulate your own state, those things do not disappear in a relationship. They get amplified. And if you are not solid going in, you will not just hurt yourself. You will damage the person across from you too.

King Dre breaks down what it actually means to have heart, not just in dating, but in life. The ability to take rejection without falling apart. The discipline to keep showing up when things get uncomfortable. The self-awareness to know where you are in the process and not skip steps. A good relationship, a real one, is not a right. It is a luxury, and to whom much is given, much is required.

Level up first. Get some experience. Get rejected. Get stood up. Get disappointed and come back anyway. That is the process, and skipping it will cost you every time.

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Welcome, welcome, welcome, fellas, to the Too Much Game Podcast, episode four. We're gonna talk about having more heart. This is the heart part two. And this episode was gonna come later on in the pipeline, but some things happened, and I just gotta address it so we hear. So um, it's gonna be a very good episode. Take notes, get your pad, get your pen, pull your notepad out, pay attention, share the game, share it with your brother, your sister, not your sister, your brother, your uncle, your cousin, your daddy, your son, your friend, the homie in the group chat who need this game, who don't got no heart. Share this with them. Um, also, real quick, complete attraction mastery is available. It goes over attraction. I teach you how to be attractive physically. I teach you how to be attractive internally for that way. You can have a magnetic, attractive personality, go over charm, mouthpiece, conviction, you know, all the things that make you magnetic as a man. Um, we go over texting, uh, what to do, what not to do. I break down, you know, three different text threads for three hours. I go in what to do, what not to do, what to text, what not to text, how to escalate, how to open, that type of stuff. Um when is it too much? When is it not enough? But just a whole expose on texting, because people have been telling me to do text and stuff for years, and I finally gave in and I gave it to you. So um, you can find that in the description to complete attraction mastery. Look in the description right now. Or if you're watching on Spotify or Apple, make sure you um click the link in the show notes. Also, if you need a little bit more help working with me, if you want to work with me, have a little extra help, um, want to get to the finish line faster, whether it's texting, escalating, you know, you're not closing your dates, your dates ain't going nowhere, women ain't treating you right, um, you know, you're not getting the the cheeks and the relationships you want. Uh, you don't know how to escalate, you don't know how to code approach, you don't, you're scared to express yourself, all that stuff. I work with you direct one-on-one for eight weeks, and I can take you to your goal in eight weeks. And if you can't, you don't, not if you can't, if you don't, because you can do anything you put your mind to. If you don't reach your goal within eight weeks, uh, you know, I'll work with you at no additional cost. Um, if you want to apply for that, I don't I don't work with just anybody. If you want to apply for that, click the link in the uh description. It'll either say Seduction Mastery Coaches Coaching or Um Seduction Mastery Coaching or Apply for one-on-one, whatever it's it'll say something like that. Click that link, it's gonna be in the description, and it's gonna be in the show notes. Other than that, let's get straight into this game. Like I said in the beginning, man, I was gonna do um another do you have the heart, right? I was gonna do another part two, like later on down the line, later on in the pipeline, but a few things had happened that came up that I was like, I gotta address this now. Um, it's more pressing now. So my first episode, uh, you know, Do You Have the Heart to be a player? Do you have the heart to play the field, right? Some guys took that as like, yeah, dating around is not for me. So I'm gonna just jump straight into a relationship. And namely some of my students, because truth be told, I get my students' results. My students get results. They come to me, they can't text, they can't close, they can't escalate, they can't, you know, get sex, they can't get relationships, and I get them the relationships, I get them the sex, I get them the attention, I make them attractive and teach them how to communicate and express themselves authentically so that women actually like them. And so they now that they're getting attention from women, they're getting this attention from women and women throwing the coochie at them, right? But some of those guys took what I said and was like, oh, it's time to get into a relationship. And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, slow down. Now, if you want to do that, fine, go ahead. I'm not here to tell you what to do. I'm not here to to to control your life. I don't want to control your life and I don't want to think for you. But as your gracious, gracious, gracious game advisor, I have to let you know what's out here, right? And the same people that inspired the first episode, most of them were the ones who kind of took it and was like, yeah, uh, I don't want to play the field, I don't want to date around, I'm gonna just find me something. And so typically, what happens with guys like that, and this isn't a first, this isn't a first with this guy, but you know, since we're doing the podcast, why not uh talk about it on the episode? Why not make the theme around that? I've been seeing this since I've been coaching. But typically, what usually happens is you get a guy who's not used to getting attention in his life, he's not used to getting sex, he's not, you know, not used to women liking him. And that it's not that women don't like him, he just don't know it because he don't put himself out there enough for him to see it, right? There's women who like you regardless of what you feel about yourself. But once you take them to that point, they think that they're ready for the world now. Once they can go on a date, get laid, get them some sex, get a woman to rub in their hair and tell them their dreams, they think, okay, now I've made it, I'm ready. And I've seen this my since I've been coaching for eight years, I see it over and over and over again. And those guys jump out there and get wrecked. They get absolutely wrecked. And when I say wrecked, they take typically they take the first thing that smile at them because they've been so empty for so long and they desperate for uh uh needy for like or dependent on female uh uh uh women for to feel better about themselves or whatever the case may be. And so as soon as they start to get the attention and they get the first woman that just cooperates with them, they wife her up. They don't vet them, they overlook the red flags, and they think they made it. And it's like slow down, play boy. Slow down, play boy. You just you just got in the game, you have no idea what awaits you. And I don't want to paint this out to be like, oh, it's just big, bad world full of monsters, but it this is the like game of life. Like it's just like if you get into business, you make your first sale, and you like, oh, we in there. No, nigga, it this shit get crazy. You know, once you start, you know, once you start growing and you gotta worry about this and that, that it that's anything in life. And it's saying, go for relationships. You just you just I get you in the game, get you to level one, and you think you're ready to, you know, just beat the game and ride off into the sunset. And ideally, that's what I would love it to be. I would love it for you know you to learn some skills and find your girlfriend and ride off into the sunset. But unfortunately, in this society, that ain't just that's not really how it goes. You understand? And so they get wrecked, they get ate up, they choose the wrong woman, and she ring them, chew them up, and spit them out because they didn't vet, they didn't put her through the process, they overlook the red flags, and all they was concerned with was I finally got a girlfriend. Right? So that's the that's the part of me about what I do that like keep me up at night because I know I get these guys to where they want to be, and I know 95% of the time they gonna think that they just, you know, they gonna think that they just made it. Like I even got a guy, shout out to him. One of the most game goofiest dudes I ever dealt with in my life, as far as like coaching. Um, took him from zero to hero. Last weekend, he got two different chicks. Uh, after working with me for two weeks, uh got two different chicks. After he fumbled, he did a big fumble that I'm gonna probably do a YouTube about him fumbling, how bad he fumbled. Um, so I corrected it, whatever, got two different chicks. Then he on the call last night thinking he just fucking uh Hugh Hefner, like he just fucking talking about he was he he he it was one chick, he was FaceTime and he was letting us, you know, see his stuff, and he just think that, you know, and this is somebody that he clearly knows isn't the one, like she's not open for this, and she's just basically a glorified prostitute. So he thinking because she's sitting there and entertaining him laughing, now that he can get some play, he thinking she he can just make her into him, you know, and she clearly told him, I want to be spoiled. I if you ain't giving me nothing, it ain't nothing. And so she's entertaining him, basically playing on his ego and got him in a web, jumping through hoops, and he don't even realize it because he don't understand the game yet, because he just got in the game and started smelling himself because he's starting to get women to give him some play. And so I'm trying to tell him last night, bro, had it not for me, that girl would have taken everything you had, had it not for being for me telling you, because in your mind now you think you just the man and you think you just ready. No, it gets way, it the game don't stop at you getting in the game, closing a date, and getting some ass. It don't game don't stop there. The game don't stop even when you get married. And when I say the game don't stop, I don't mean you have to play games with people, meaning life don't slow down and life don't stop, and the rules of life and relationships don't automatically stop because you get in the game now, it don't work like that, and so that's why I'm doing this. I'm basically doing this because, like I said, I spoke about the heart, having the heart to play the field, and these guys think, well, since I ain't got the heart to play the field, I need to just go on and be in a relationship. But if you were paying attention to the first episode, it was basically medicine wrapped in candy, right? Because the things that I was telling you that you needed the heart for, or what caught what took heart, that's basically man shit. And if you don't have the heart to play the feel, this is a news flash for any of my guys who heard that episode or they feel like I don't got the heart to be out here to be dealing with this type of stuff. If you don't have the heart to play the feel and date around, you damn sure ain't got the heart to be in no motherfucking monogamous relationship because it's 10 times harder. It's a thousand times harder. Like my guy, right? One of my guys, I got him to that point. Um it's like that. I had to I had to give him the Elden Ring analogy for my guys who've played video games or who play video games. If you're familiar with a game called Elden Ring, now I I never used to like stuff like this, but I I decided to try it maybe a few months ago. And it's basically this open, it's like a combat game, but it's open world, it's not linear, and you basically play it at your own pace. It's not a linear story that pushes you to toward a boss and an objective. It's just a big open world, and you can attack it however you feel. And what that game teaches you is that, you know, you know, as soon as you start, there's this big old boss, and it basically teaches you that you're not ready, you need to go level up, you know, and you may go to another part and this shit just wrecking you. Anyone know Elden Game Elden Ring is a very difficult game, like it that shit humbles you, right? And so I don't even see how people have fun playing that game. I be trying, I get I play it based for ego, like I gotta do this, but it the shit is not fun. But basically, what I had to learn was it gives you this big open world, right? Just like life. You just big open world, and you go in and you play in the world, and then you run across these tests that you're not ready for. And so you have to go back down to a lower level, go back to another part of the world, level up, practice, level up, kill some level-level monsters, level up, level your gear up, level your skills up, and then you go do it. But that's what that game is about. It's the same way with life. It's like you get to this point, get some clothes on a date, and it's like you run into you get in the game now, and these chicks is smashing you because you're not ready. And I'm not saying that you gotta continue to sleep around and stuff. If that ain't in you, that ain't in you. But if you don't have the heart to play the field, if you don't have the heart to date around, if you can't take what comes with that, you definitely can't take what comes with being in a monogamous, a monogamous relationships. And relationships are great, and business is great, right? Just like business is great or having a career is great, but everything has pros and cons. Relationships have pros and cons. Me running this business has pros and cons. Going on a job have pros and cons. Playing the field has pros and cons. But what I'm saying, if you ain't got the heart to deal with what's out here, when you don't have no attachment to it, you damn sure don't have it to deal with. One, you know, one woman. Right? You damn sure won't have that. And the thing is, my guys that's like that, right? Who they start out game goofy, right? A game among real quick, women feeling you. You still a weenie. Meaning you still a rookie, you just have the skills now. The eight-week coaching ain't gonna this is a life. Me, the product what you see is a lifetime, this is a journey, right? The the skills that I give you is to give you to to to to I plant a seed in you through my coaching that sprouts, it's gonna sprout over your lifetime, but along the way, you know, as you level up in life, these seeds gonna sprout to to make you into who you want to be. But what my coaching does is it gives you the skill to be able to get along and to as the version of you coming out, so you can get the results, the sex, the dates, to know how to text and all that stuff. These are just skills. But who you are remains. You didn't change your internal makeup in two weeks. You still a weenie. Don't forget that. If you come to me, a weenie, by the time we get done in eight weeks, you still gonna be a weenie. You just a weenie that's ready for the game. Does that make sense? You just a weenie that's ready for the game, and I'm not saying that to disparage people or to as I'm better than you as a human being, but you just a low-level guy that got skills now. You got a better sword now, you gotta, you done leveled up your skills a couple, but you still a weenie, you're not ready. You see, relationships are much harder. You still a weenie. And if you are weenie to the point where you can't get a date, a relationship ain't no, it's way harder, my brother. You still a weenie. And that's not to say that you shouldn't be in a relationship or you can't get in a relationship, or that woman you find may not be the best woman for you. I hope that. I hope that that's the ideal situation, but unfortunately, that's just not how life works most times. You gotta gotta you kinda gotta pay your dues, basically. And I'm not saying you gotta keep dating bullshit women over and over and over and over again, but you're not ready, you're not solid, and I'm gonna explain what I mean more. I'm gonna go into what I mean more. But the thing you guys, those type of guys don't understand, and most of you guys who are weenies don't understand. Love is not a luxury, just like sex is not a luxury, which is why you couldn't, it was so hard for you to get, you know, throughout your life, it was so hard for you to get play, get women to show up on dates, get women to give you sex. Intimacy and sex, that's not no luxury. Like, I mean, excuse me, it is a luxury. Sorry. I'm talking wrong. Love is a luxury, intimacy is a luxury. Sex and a woman giving you her body, that's a luxury. That's not a God-given right, that's not a uh uh, that's not essential for some for your survival and your edification. It is a luxury, right? Love is a luxury that needs to be earned and maintained, and a lot of you guys don't have the heart to maintain that that one love and maintain a lot of you guys ain't there yet, right? And I'm not saying that playing the field is gonna get you there, but living more life will putting yourself in front of you know different situations and going through life and developing yourself as a man will. And dating is a huge part of that. You understand? Relationships nowadays, this is what you guys gotta understand. Relationships nowadays are not built on materialistic dependency anymore. Like a lot of you guys, I don't think most men have evolved past like caveman times or medieval times. Like we are not there anymore. Relationships are not built or depend on materialistic. Oh, he got a job and he got a 401k, or he got retirement, and he's stable, so I'm gonna dedicate my life to him so I can survive. That's that shit died a hundred years ago. It don't work like no more. Right? Fathers ain't selling their daughters like cattle and arranged marriages. It don't work. I mean, not that it don't work, we ain't, that's not where we at as a society, and we ain't going back no time soon. People nowadays don't stay in relationships that destroy their peace and happiness. There's other incentive to not be in a situation like that. Like we don't have to, whereas we depended on each other back in the days. That that dependency is no longer there. So we don't have to stay in situations that no longer serve us or that you know are detriment to our health and our mental health and our peace and our uh uh our state of being as a human being. Men don't have to stay in relationships like that no more, and women don't either. And you guys need to evolve and catch up to that. It's not about the materialistic shit and materialistic dependency anymore. And y'all think like that, y'all date like that. That's why you think it's like almost a God-given right to a woman's love. Love is not a luxury. I mean, excuse me, love is a luxury, sex is a lush, a luxury. Right? Another thing you gotta understand is love is fragile. It's a luxury and it's fragile, meaning there's a thin line between love and hate. I don't know if y'all ever heard that saying before, but there's a very thin line, meaning for anybody that has ever loved somebody or has been deeply because love is just a deep infatuation, right? And the act of love is backed up by actions, but the state and feeling of love is just a deep infatuation or deep admiration, right? Um, that goes beyond respect. When the emotions are that intense, it's easy to go either way. It's almost like being manic. Like when somebody's emotionally charged, there's a volatility in that. Like it's volatile, even volatile, even if it's a good emotion, right? If you're super stoked up and on a high and stoked up, it's very easy to to become disappointed and crash. You understand? When a per when you in love with a person and you're into them like that, it's it's very easy for that to flip to hate, right? It's very easy for that to be disappointed and to cause disappointment for you and for her. Right? You so in love with her and you so whatever, it's easy for her to do something to disappoint that. Or it's easy for her to do something or to trigger something that to can flip that into like damn near disdain or hate. So it's it's very fragile, and you have to be able to maintain that over a long term. And you gotta have the heart to be able to maintain that as a man because love and relationships and all that, it comes with challenges and it comes with things that most of y'all ain't ready for. Most of you guys are not ready for. You're not even equipped to deal with a woman and her bullshit. And if you think women don't come with bullshit, even the most feminine women with the best intentions come with bullshit because it's another human being. Human beings come with their own bullshit. And it's not even that it's intentional. Yeah, you got people that be on bullshit intentionally, but we're talking about best case scenario or even normal case scenario where this person just has good intentions. They still, there's still gonna be a riff rap because you're two different people. There's still gonna be differences of opinion, there's still gonna be clashes or whatever. Most of y'all are not equipped to deal with it, handle it, move past it. Most of y'all ain't equipped for that. You don't have the heart for it. You understand? Just like love is fragile, respect is fragile, fragile. Respect can be destroyed at a minute's notice. You don't know how to maintain it. You don't got the heart to maintain that shit over a long term. And again, this is not a commercial for y'all niggas to play the field and try to fuck everything that move. But this is basically an alarm or warning to tell you slow down. Because if you ain't solid, you're gonna destroy everything in your path. Even a woman with good intentions, you're gonna destroy that situation. Even a good woman that comes from a good home. If you, if you bad company corrupts good character, basically. If you're not right, if you're not solid, as a man, even the best woman ever, you'll destroy that situation. Now, you may not destroy her, and I want you to think, why do you think that woman ain't damaged yet? I want y'all to think about that. When you get a woman who ain't damaged, especially if she got experience and she's been out here or she has past relationships, why do you think she ain't damaged? You know why? Because she sees a uh a no heart weenie like you, and she gets out the way as soon as it blows up. Because she don't want that situation to damage her, she preserves herself so. So, even a good woman with good intentions, you will soil and sour that situation by not having your shit together. And that ain't even about her, it's about you and how you're putting your game down. You understand? So, again, this ain't a commercial to be like, oh, run to play the field and all that shit. No, dating does help you learn yourself, build some game muscles and get your shit up. But also living life and going through life as a man helps you mature. And you know, if you're doing it with the right intentions, helps you mature, be solid, learn things, learn yourself. But dating is a great way to do that. It's not the most, it's not the only way, but it's still it's a very good way to learn yourself. Learn what you like, learn your tolerance, learn how to practice asserting yourself and standing up for yourself, all this type of stuff. Learning to deal with women and their moods and emotions. So that's what this is about. This ain't a commercial of, oh, go have sex with a whole bunch of women. Right? But respect is fragile, man, and it can never be, once it's destroyed, it's destroyed very easily. And once it's destroyed, I most often never returns. Once a person loses respect for you, once a woman loses respect for you, it never returns. Let's say you fall in love with a girl, you got a girl, you're six months, you're y'all in you in love with her, you got respect for her. This is your the rock of your world, right? You you you look at her in high regard, and then you find out that she got a train ran on her in college by six black dudes on the on the frat thing. And this happened way before you, 15 years ago, 10 years ago before you even knew her. You're gonna instantly lose respect and it's gonna never come back. Now you might stay with her and got a staple your stomach together every day, but you'll never respect her the same. You'll never look at that. You'll never look at her in high regard. That's how fast and easy respect is lost. A woman will lose respect for you just by the way that you deal with an argument. Or you blowing off the hinge, not being able to control your emotions, or you get upsetting your feelings, and you know, you you call her a nasty name, or whatever the case may be, like you can lose respect like that. And a lot of y'all don't have the heart that comes with dealing with conflict, maintaining respect and maintaining love. You just don't. You don't, and that's just the honest truth. But, you know, that's why I'm here. That's what I do, what I do. Now, my one-on-one coaching don't necessarily deal with that. My program, my coaching program is designed to get you in the game, get you, to get you there. Now, if you want to work out something, you know, join the community or work out something with me, I can work with you on that. But typically, what I promote my coaching program, it don't deal with the more advanced aspects of the game. I do got programs that touch on stuff like that for sure. Um, but my one-on-one coaching don't is is to get you in the game. But yeah, respect is fragile and you gotta respect respect and you gotta respect love. Because love can be gone, love can turn into hate, just like that. Respect can turn into you know content. Contempt, uh not content, I'm talking about content. Contempt and and uh resentment, respect can turn into contempt and resentment, just like that. You just saying the wrong thing, expressing yourself, or or you know, going over the hinge or or just anything, lying, not putting her in check when you shoulda. Like it's not easy to maintain respect over no long term. Let me say this. Where you at as a weenie, it's not easy. Because it's for me, it is. Because it's respect and nothing over here. And I'm standing on that. But you ain't there. You still a weenie, you still a little, you're still a little dog. You know, you still a pup. And that's fine. You're gonna grow. That's what life is about, growing. But you ain't there. Right now, if you're a man who's tired of women going cold over text, tired of dates that end with a hug and no follow-through, tired of the dry spells that stretch way longer than they should, tired of fumbling women because you don't know what to say or do next. This is for you. Pay attention. Hell, if you haven't been able to get any traction with women at all and you start from zero, this is still for you. Seduction Mastery is an eight-week one-on-one coaching program where I teach you how to have consistent access to women you actually want and take full control of your dating life. I'll teach you exactly what to say on dating apps to get women to respond and wanting to meet you in person. I'll teach you how to text, what to say, when to say it, and how to get women to show up to the date and reduce your canceled dates drastically. I'll teach you how to plan the date, lead it, and escalate from the number to the date to taking her home and having sex without overthinking or talking yourself out at every stage. And I'll show you how to be physically appealing, even if you're short or overweight. This is direct one-on-one coaching built around your actual situations and your personality. So you're not gonna be somebody who you're not, and you can still get what you want. If you're ready to stop wasting your time and running on a hamster wheel and start having real dates, real sex, and real relationships with women, the link is in the description. If you're watching on YouTube, go click the link in the description. If you're watching on Spotify, Apple, the link is in the show notes. Let's get to it. I'm gonna ask you some questions. Right? I'm gonna ask you some questions. I'm gonna ask you guys some questions. And I want you to take into account I'm not talking about a woman you met a week ago. We're talking about a woman you deeply invested in, two years, three years now, four, five years in. You in love with. You may even got a kid or two, you may be even engaged or marriage or married, right? Not no woman you just met two weeks ago. So I'm gonna ask you these questions and the woman that you're deeply invested in, that's who I want you to have in mind when I ask you these questions. So I know to be cool and in the comments and all that shit, you show just walk away. Okay, Mr. Tough Guy. Alright. All right, weenie. And when I and I when I say weenie, I'm just pulling y'all balls. Pause. It's a shame I gotta say that now because y'all young motherfuckers watch so much porn that anything that like y'all just brains are just so much and see so much balls and so much gay stuff and porn and seeing men's wee wees and because y'all watch so much porn and everything to you, like it's over sexualized in your mind. That's not my problem, that's your problem. So, but yeah, I'm just I'm just pulling your balls and giving you a hard time. But um, yeah, I'm gonna ask you some questions, and I want you to remember that we're not talking about a woman you met a week ago or a month ago. We're talking about somebody that you're deeply invested in. Two years, three years, four years, maybe got a kid, maybe married. What are you gonna do when that woman violates your boundaries? Now we're talking about, again, not no woman that you just met a week ago. That's easy to tell her, come on, get the fuck up out of here. We're talking about you, weenie. What are you gonna do when that woman violates your boundaries? She calls you out her name. She calls you out your name. Shut the fuck up. You're so stupid. Oh my gosh, what you gonna do? A lot of you motherfuckers don't even have the heart to even deal with that the right way. What you gonna do? How you gonna handle that? You gonna just walk away? And you got a kid that you wanna see every day? You're gonna just walk away, huh? I know what I do. I know what I do, and I know what I got the heart to do. What you gonna do, though? What you gonna do? This is really, this happens. This happens, they gonna cross that line for sure. I don't know what y'all motherfuckers think. I don't know who y'all be listening to. They gonna cross that line. All of them. Good, bad, family, dad in their life, mom in their life, no dad, no dad, uh, no mom, drug addict, prostitute, good woman, church girl, they gonna cross that line, bro. Because it's a thing you gotta understand about women and people in general. A lot of the times when people, when there's a conflict, so I'm giving y'all some game so you can understand. When there's a conflict between people, the things that come out whether it's verbally, and it should never be physical. Oftentimes it's not personal. I used to think it was personal when I was younger, and I used to react like it was personal. Um not saying that I allow it now, but I don't internalize it as it's personal. A lot of the times it's not a personal, most times it's because that person in their eyes, you're attacking them, and so when a person gets into fight mode, they see an enemy on the other end of it, and people like it's our instinct to tear down the enemy when we see when we're in a fight or when we see an op or somebody's attacking us, and so a lot of the times what comes out is a person a lot of the times maybe feeling like they're being attacked and they gotta defend themselves and they gotta cut you down so they can so you won't destroy them, right? It goes back to that type of shit. And most of y'all don't even have the game or the heart enough to explain to your woman that and frame that in a way that you know, so she can understand that you I'm I'm not the enemy. Like I understand that. I understand that the yelling back and forth or the personal insults and all of that stuff. Most of y'all don't have the heart or the game to be able to play past that and get your woman to understand that the reason that she's doing that is because in her mind, she believes she's being attacked and she sees you as the enemy. Most of y'all don't have the heart to or the game to explain, play past it, explain that to her in a way that it makes sense. And then what if she don't see it like that or she tells you to fuck off and what you're talking is bullshit? Most of y'all will sweep it under the rug and continue on, and there'll be no more respect ever. Most of y'all don't got the heart to walk away from that two, three years in. You see what I'm saying? So that's what I'm asking you. What are you gonna do when your woman violates your boundaries? And I'm not talking about a woman you hit a couple weeks ago that you met a month ago. That's not what I'm talking about. What you gonna do? How you gonna how you gonna get that under control? How you gonna get her to see that she can't do this? Gonna walk away, tough guy? Most of y'all ain't. You see what I'm saying? How can you get her to see that she can't do this? You see what I'm saying? Let me ask you another question.

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For my guy, because I'm trying to show y'all that y'all don't got the heart for this shit. A lot of y'all. What are you gonna do when it's been three weeks and she ain't been in the mood for sex? What you gonna do? Y'all live together. Y'all been living together past two years, y'all engaged, and she not in the mood to have sex with you. What are you gonna do? Oh, I'm gonna go uh uh you gonna go cheat. What you gonna cheat? Or you're gonna go whine to her about how it's her responsibility to uh uh service you and she she has a responsibility to make sure you get you know your balls empty and all this shit. So then you're gonna make it worse by making her feel like you obligated to her body. Don't nobody want to feel like that. You simply you ain't gonna do that but make it work. What you gonna you gonna implement that dumb red pill shit? Oh, you you got them, you must be having sex with somebody else. What if that ain't the case? What you gonna do when it's been three weeks and she ain't in the mood for sex and she's telling you not tonight. Not tonight, three weeks. What you gonna do? Do you even know how to handle that? Do you have the heart to be rejected like that? Tough guy? Huh? You got the heart to be rejected by the woman you so dependent on? Because that's the thing. A lot of y'all dependent on women. You don't have the heart to stand on your own, so you're dependent on a woman for intimacy and to feel whole and closeness and to feel one. And you feel one and validated by getting sex from her. So, what you gonna do when she's denying you that tough guy? You understand? Most of y'all get flustered when you try to escalate on a date and the chick tell you, nah, y'all don't know what to do. Y'all hire me for coaching to figure that out. So, what you gonna do when it's your woman? Cause that happens, you know that happens. And you know, a lot of the times it has nothing to fucking do with you. That's something I had to realize. A lot of the times it has nothing to do with you. Sometimes it might have something to do with you. What if it's it got something to do with you? What you gonna do? But what if it don't got nothing to do with you? And you don't know that and then you personalize it like it got something to do with you, and now you cause some problems further, you know, further killing the mood even more. Have you guys thought about that before you got it? Because this happens. If you've been if you be with somebody long enough, this happens. Things happen. You understand? What are you gonna do? Most of y'all are gonna only gonna make the situation worse because you don't have the heart to deal with that, you don't have the heart to be rejected. Because you're dependent on women, because you ain't got the heart to stand alone as a man and depend on your own self. You need women to feel validated. So most of you guys are gonna go and destroy it by being a baby and whining or trying to guilt trip her or going to cheat or starting a problem or personalizing it and making it personal about you. And even if it is about you, you don't even know what to do because you believe in your mind that sex is her sex is your God-given right. Her body belongs to you. It don't work like that. I don't give a fuck what we like to believe in. That's my girl, that's my one. You don't own nobody's body, you don't control nobody's body, and you can't control how they feel, or you can't make them do something they don't want to do. That's just the reality. You don't believe that sex and love is a luxury. You don't believe that. You think somebody owes you something. So even if it is you, you didn't gain 50 pounds, or you smelling and whatever the case may be, or you being acting like a child, you know, or you whatever you're doing to turn the situation off, arguing every day, whatever, to turn it to turn the intimacy off. Or letting resentment set in. Even if it is you, you don't even know how to fix it. This happens. This happens. If you ain't equipped to deal with it, if you ain't got the heart to deal with it, you're gonna drown, player, you're gonna drown. What are you gonna do? Let me ask you again. Well, let me ask you another question. What are you gonna do when she needs to take space for herself? What you gonna do when she needs to take space for yourself? Y'all done heard me say on the internet, or other dudes say on the internet, if a woman wants to take space, that means she fucking somebody else. Bro, let me tell you something. That makes good content, and in a lot of y'all's cases, I'm talking about guys who are in utility boyfriend spaces. A lot of the times that's the case. But, you know, for other situations and you know, more mature situations, and a lot of the times it's not the case. A lot of the times it ain't got nothing to do, and just be honest, a lot of the times it ain't got nothing to do with you or no other man. So, what you gonna do if she needs time for herself? You can't handle that. You know why? Because you depended on her, because you ain't got the heart to stand on your motherfucking own. So you depending on her. You need her around, you need her to be in a good mood so you can feel better about yourself. So she wanna take time for her to get her shit together, to get her mind right, to prioritize her shit so she could be whole for you. And you ain't even got the heart to even understand it because you so motherfucking dependent on her because you're a weenie. You can't stand on your own. You need her for validation, you need her to feel better about yourself. So, what you gonna do when she you smother on her, she tells you, you know, I just need a little space to myself, I just need a little time to myself. I don't have the capacity to point to you right now. What you gonna do? Oh, I'm gonna do this. I'ma kick her to the curve. I'm gonna do shut up. Shut your motherfucking ass up. I I'm a coach. You know, I got thousands of messages of you niggas flustered because a bitch that you don't even know won't even text you back. Huh? Huh? You want me to say it again? I have thousands of messages over the eight years, thousands through Instagram, Facebook, email, daily. I get messages daily, thousands of messages that I've seen. Well, you niggas is flustered and feeling low about yourself when a bitch that you met two weeks ago that you don't even know that ain't provided you no value, don't text you back. So, what you gonna do when the girl that you invested in, the woman that you invested in need time for her? She ain't got the energy to pull into you. What you gonna do, big man? You niggas don't have the heart for this. Let me tell you what I do. Because it happened to me. It happened to me. And it didn't have nothing to do with me. I understood that. I gave them time to regather themselves and supported them with whatever they was going through because I understood it in it by me, and I could take care of my motherfucking self. I don't need no woman to make me feel better and complete. I get up and go on by my, I gotta make time for my motherfucking woman. Not even this one. I had to make time for them. I got my own life. I don't need no woman to be there for me to be feel better about myself. Take all the space you need. And whatever you need, I got you. They may be going through something emotionally. Uh uh, they had a kid in postpartum. That shit fuck your hormones up. I seen I got four children. I know. You see what I'm saying? They may be going through depression or they may be sick and don't fucking know it. They vitamin D may be low, they may have a heavy period for the last three months, and now they iron low and they can't even get out the fucking bed. And you think it's about you because you heard me say on the internet, oh, she's got another dick in her mouth if she needs space. Because I'm talking about somebody that who that happened to, and you applied it to you. You done hear all this red picture, so now you think it's about you, and you're gonna go while she damn there about to die, don't know her iron low, right? Uh uh, she ain't got no beetle, and I know what it's like because I done had a low iron and low vitamin D before. You can't even get out the motherfucking bed. Sex be the last thing on your mind. I know what that feels like. So, what you gonna do? And women have it a lot of times because they got heavy periods, so not all of them, but a lot of women get heavy periods, so a lot of times they iron below and shit. But, you know, what you gonna do? You go in there and make it about you? You gonna go in there and make it about you when she needs space? Because you need her to survive like a child, like a little baby. You need her, you need her to be up under you, telling you good positive things so you can feel good about yourself, weenie. Again, y'all get flustered when a woman you don't even know don't text you back. King Drake, can you drop something on Texan? That's one of my hottest-selling courses right now. The Texan, uh, a complete attraction system that got the texting part in there. Flying off the shelf for the texting part. Because bitches ain't texting you back. Now, what happens when the woman you love needs time for herself? You don't know, you don't have the heart to deal with it. This happens. Every relationship that's gonna happen. Because it's gonna come a time when you need time for your fucking self, and it ain't gonna have nothing to do with your woman. It's gonna be a time where you ain't got the capacity to give nobody. Because life, life, homie. Life has ups and life half downs. And sometimes you're gonna be in a valley. It's peaks and it's valleys, and sometimes you're gonna be in a valley to where you don't have anything to give anybody, you can barely get to yourself, and that's gonna same thing gonna happen for your lady. What are you gonna do, Weenie? I thought so. Y'all don't, that's what I'm saying. See, when y'all think I'm just trying to be cool and big dog and saying, you ain't got the heart to no nigga. This shit real. This happens in relationships. This happens. You know what I'm saying? And then you make it about you and then further create resentment. Now there is real resentment. Now she don't want to be around you for real because you ain't understand it. You ain't there to support because all you thinking about is you. Because you ain't got the heart to stand on your own two feet as a man. You can't wake up as a man and be solid without her. You understand? What you gonna do when you land next to your lady? You want closeness, you want intimacy, but she ain't feeling it. It's been a week. What you gonna do? What you gonna do? You gonna whine about it, you gonna complain, you gonna pout like a baby? What you gonna do? What you gonna do with yourself? I thought so. What you gonna do when you feel like the girl cheating on you, but you can't find evidence of proof nowhere? What you gonna do? When when when that that uh what they call it in in therapy and the mental health, it's on the tip of my tongue. Intrusive thoughts. What you gonna do when them intrusive thoughts and your negative insecurity start eating you alive? And you think your girl cheating on you just can't put a finger on it? Cause she needed space. Or the last two weeks she ain't really been in the mood. What you gonna do? And you really feel like she cheating? Right? You done went through a phone, can't find nothing. Now you thinking she's a liar. Now you thinking, damn, this bitch good. What you gonna do with yourself, big man? What you gonna do? Huh? You don't even know what to do with your um negative emotions. You don't have the emotional intelligence to deal and manage your negative emotions that really come from nowhere. Now, I'm not saying that there don't be women on bullshit, because yes, it be cheaters, the women that cheat be on bullshit. But we talking about provided you ain't that ain't the situation you in. What you gonna do? You don't have the emotional intelligence to even manage your emotions. To identify, you know what? These are negative thoughts based on XYZ, and these are my negative emotions and my insecurities making me ruminate on something that ain't there. You tripping. Get yourself in check, keep it moving. You don't have the emotional intelligence to do that. Because you don't have the heart to even put yourself in that mind of thinking to even sit with yourself like that, to look yourself in the mirror and say, you know what, it's me that's tripping. It's me. Look yourself in the mirror and be like, you know what, I'm tripping, I'm being a bitch. You don't got the heart to look at yourself and tell yourself that you're gonna blame it on her. Well, she gotta be cheating because she ain't wanna sleep with me. King Drake said, if you uh this red pill dude said, and this did, they say this on the internet, what you gonna do? Right? Make it worse? Accuse her of cheating and annoy her, and she really ain't. If she is, she is. We ain't talking about if she is. We talking about what if she ain't, but you think she is. And I guess we'll never know. I guess we'll never know. But what are you gonna do with that girl that knows your homegirl that she went on a uh the little birthday dinner with? She ain't super cool with your girl, but she knows your girl. What you gonna do when she catch you somewhere at the grocery store or you know, out with your boys and she choosing on you? The girl that your home, the homegirl or the associate that knows your girl, what you gonna do when she choosing and she throwing it at you. What you gonna do? What you gonna do with her friend throwing it at you? What you gonna do when that girl at work soft, sweet talking to you every day?

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What you gonna do when she starts bringing you food and lunch and doing all this nice shit for you off your ride to the stove on break to go to McDonald's for lunch? What you gonna do? A lot of y'all don't even have the heart to resist stuff like that. Because again, you need validation from women, and and your your need for validation overrides your loyalty to your situation. Because you listen to these niggas tell you old men are just supposed to, no, bro. You know? So, and I'm not saying that you don't have no appetite to for new women. Shit, I got appetite to eat, I got an appetite for sugar. I want me some red velvet cake right now, but I can't do it. I ain't gonna do it because it ain't healthy for me. The same desire you have to have sex, you got the same desire to eat carbs and bullshit. You have the same impulse and desire to eat carbs and bullshit. Do you do it? So that that that kills that, but I'm saying what you gonna do? Yeah, sound cool. You say the nigga sound cool. Oh, you gotta, you know, we just uh uh men are made to be all this old. That shit sounds cool. Sound player, it sounds cool, but that ain't how this works, my nigga. That's not how this works. You signed up to to to be in an exclusive relationship with somebody, you signed up to not bring somebody back diseases or you know, put their life at risk by cheating, by bringing them diseases and and drama and all this sort of shit. That's what you signed up for. So what you gonna do when when it when when a nice white with a nice little white chick, some my my my um my brothers that you know that think white ice is colder, or the Mexican chick calling you poppy, and you know, or that Asian for my white guys, that Asian chick at your job that y'all fantasize about. You know, these a be fantasizing about these Asian chicks and shit. You know, she she bringing you lunch, she said, Oh, let's go to lunch. I uh we're gonna go to McDonald's. I can drive, and now you in her car. What you gonna do? You gonna put yourself in a bad situation? So when your girl found out, it's it destroys the trust. You're gonna put yourself in a situation that you can't be in or that you shouldn't be in because you ain't got the heart to resist, you know, to resist temptation and to stand on your own and be dependent on self. Your need for validation overrides, you know, the loyalty you're supposed to have to your home. You know, what you gonna do? A lot of y'all don't got the heart to even turn pussy down. Yeah, y'all get in relationships with whores and all types of shit. Y'all don't even have the heart to turn it down. A lot of y'all will destroy your home for a motel because you don't have heart. You know what I'm saying? So this the truth. Y'all want some truth time? This the truth. Most of you guys are getting into a relationship for relief. And by relief I mean there's an emptiness, there's a pain, there's a void, there's a desperation, there's a vulnerability, and that woman represents the soothing of that void or desperation or pain or need or desperation or emptiness. That woman fulfills that. And so that's why you get into a relationship. You don't get a you don't look at a woman and be like, okay, she has these qualities, she has these qualities. We can put our thing together and we can create something massive. Most of y'all don't get into relationships for that. We can build something, you know, together, tangibly and intangibly. You know, we can I see us, we can create a nice family. She got these qualities, I got these qualities, we can put it together and 10x this shit. Y'all, that's not why y'all get into relationships. There's an emptiness, there's a void, and there's a need. And that woman remedies that. And so you overlook everything else to get that need and to get that fucking relief. That's a horrible, horrible reason to get into a relationship. And truth be told, a lot of women get into relationships with men like that. That's the reason they get with men. But I make sure that when I I am not here to serve you. This is not what I'm in a relationship for. I don't live to uh uh relieve your inadequacies or relieve your pains and voids and need. That's not why I'm here. So I make sure I established that in the beginning. So if you if you're smart and you play, you should do the same thing. But again, on the flip side, that's why y'all, a lot of y'all get into relationships. Because it provides you relief. Relief from loneliness, pain, shame. You understand? You you've been on a seven-month dry spell, and you finally got some relief. So you go all in. That's a horrible reason. A horrible, horrible reason to get into a relationship. It's horrible. You know why? Right? You know why it's horrible? Because that woman now controls you. You are now dependent upon that woman. You dependent upon another human being, and so you might you make that person responsible for your emotional well-being. You assign her with the heavy burden of being responsible for your emotional well-being. And that's a position that nobody wants. I don't want it. I'm self-aware enough to know that. That's why I let a woman know off the rip, I'm not here to serve you. That's not why I'm here, baby girl. So I'm self-aware and I'm smart enough to know that people do that. And I don't want that responsibility of being emotionally responsible for another person, another person's happiness, another person's emotional well-being. And nah, I'm cool. I'm cool. But you become emotionally dependent on that woman now. And that's another human being that's imperfect. That may not feel like kissing you tonight because they got a lot of shit on their mind. Or they vitamin D low, or they vitamin B12 low, or fucking, you know, they think about their friend that died in a car accident or some shit. Like, you know, they got triggered. The friend died 10 years ago, they got triggered and saw memory, and now they just in a funk. You know, it could be anything. But if she ain't her best self, you can't be your best self. What type of fucking position is that for a man to be in? I want you to think about that. If this woman ain't her best self, you can't be your best self. That's crazy, that's diabolical. And a lot of y'all put yourselves in that position to be at the behest, at the heel of a flawed human being. You depend on them. That's crazy. What type of life is that for a man? And then they start resenting you. Because they ain't, they don't want to be responsible for another human being, especially if they got kids already. If anybody got kids, they're the most emotional dependent creatures ever. So you have another grown adult, it's like, what the fuck? You know, you're like a little kid. It's hard to respect somebody, especially romantic respect. I respect everybody. But if you depend on me as a man, if you're a man and you depend on me to think for you, it's hard for me to have a certain level of respect. And I give you the due respect as a human being. I'm never gonna disrespect you. But it's hard for me to look at you eye to eye. That's how people, that's how women see you when you're emotionally dependent on them. It's hard for them to respect you as a man. They may respect your being as a human being, a basic respect, but to respect you as a man, to when you want to come home, they want to drop to their knees and just submit to you and put your put your meat in all the way in their mouth. That takes a certain level of respect as a man for a woman to submit to you like that. They can't do that when you're emotionally dependent on them. Because they can't respect you. That's why it's horrible to get with a woman because she provides you relief. And what I want you guys to do, I want you guys to be honest with yourself. I want you guys to be honest with yourself. And I want you to audit yourself. I want you to ask yourself, am I getting in relationships with women because I need relief? And if the answer is yes, you need to fix that. Hit me up and I can help you. I've helped plenty of guys, but another thing when you when you prioritize relief, right? When your reasoning is relief. You overlook red flag because you overlook the red flags that come with a woman, the ones that you know not gonna serve you well long term in a relationship. You overlook those red flags because immediate relief it kills foresight, right? Because the relief, relieving the pain is the priority. Right? You overlook red flags because immediate relief kills your foresight, because the relief of the pain or filling the void or remedying the need becomes the priority. So you put your greater good on the back burner. Ask me how I know. I've been I've been coaching for eight years. I see it every day. I see it every day. Like my guy was talking about in episode one. The girl got 20 bodies, 25 bodies last year. He knows that that's a no from him. He know that that's a no for him, for anything long term. You know what he did? He still caught feelings. You know why? And this ain't even something that's happening conscience. He overlooked the red flags because she provided him immediate relief. It killed his foresight because remedying that pain became the priority. You negate your standards when you get with a woman based on relief. You negate your standards, you allow poor treatment and disrespect in the name of relief. You allow women to treat you poorly, you allow women to do things that don't sit right with you as a man, violate you. Because you would rather have the relief from the pain be remedied, and you would rather take the bullshit that comes with that, which that bullshit that comes with that is gonna get worse and worse and worse and worse, and it's gonna slow you down as a man, it's gonna tear you down as a man, it's gonna make your problems worse. You understand? And it's gonna be overall horrible for your greater good, but you can't see that. You don't have the foresight to see that because the immediate relief is the priority. You know what I'm saying? You gotta be solid as a man. You need to be able to take care of yourself. You need heart, you need the heart to stand up for yourself, you need the heart to take care of yourself, you need the heart to look a woman in her face and say, hello, don't ever talk to me like that again. Now I understand that in this situation you may see me as an enemy because you feel like I'm attacking you. I'm not attacking you. I'm not attacking you at all. I know it may feel like that, but that's not the case. And since you see me like that, you feel like you have to defend yourself and destroy me. That's the problem. I'm not your enemy. The problem is the enemy. In that, don't ever talk to me like that ever again. Don't ever do that. You don't got the heart to look no woman in her face and tell her that. And if she tell you to fuck off, I say what I want to say, you ain't got the heart to say, you know what? All right, cool. We have nothing else to talk about. You have a nice day. And sit her on backpacking. You ain't got the heart to do that. You ain't got the heart to when she comes back crawling, crying, I'm sorry. You ain't got the heart to look her in the face and be like, nah, I'm straight. Because tears do something to you as a man, Weenie. You understand? You gotta have the heart to stand up for yourself. You gotta have the heart to take care of yourself. Right? If you can't take care of yourself, you can't take care of no woman, bro. You can't take care of nobody less you can take care of yourself. And I don't mean financially. If you ain't solid yourself, if you can't stand on your own two feet, if you can't depend on yourself, if you ain't solid as a man, you can't take care, you can't make sure you're that for no other woman. You can't be that for somebody else, you can't be that stand-up man because you ain't that stand-up man to yourself. You don't even respect yourself, you don't even look up to yourself. You're not complete yourself. You can't be that man, you can't be him to no woman, you can't take care of no woman because you can't even do it for yourself. Make sure you're straight. That's what dating is for, to get yourself straight. That's what dating and, you know, I don't even want to say playing the field, but that's what living life is for. Getting your shit together, putting yourself in situations that make you better, that make you solid, being able to withstand a bitch not calling you back, leaving you on scene. That's why you date, so you can understand that how that goes and why that's happening. And you understand you do it enough, and it's like, okay, that don't really got nothing to do with me. I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing. So then when you get in a relationship and your girl, that happened to your girl, if everything else straightens and happens, you know, that ain't really got nothing to do with me. What can I do to support this situation and to help her get back? If it's the space she needs, I give her space. You know, not like, oh, we've been having these problems or we be having these issues, so I need space from you. Okay, that's a little different story, but you know, I ain't talking about that. But you got to be solid. You need to be solid for a relationship to last as a man. You need to be. If you ain't, you're gonna destroy it, and you can destroy a good relationship with the perfect woman if you ain't solid because bad company corrupts good character. Your insecurity, that person at the end of the on the other side of that relationship, that woman, good, bad, good home, bad home, is a human being. And negativity affects us all pretty much the same way. We don't want to not if it's a drama queen, she's gonna feed into it and tear you down even more. But that woman on the other side of that, you being insecure, or you fighting all the time, or you being whatever you being, you don't think that that has an effect on that person? And the reason that she ain't damaged is because she don't keep herself in them situations. So when you show her that, what you think is gonna happen? You think she's gonna let you damage her? Don't work like that. You need to be solid and you need to have heart to be out here. It's non-negotiable. When I say you need to have heart to be out here, I mean to be outside. That's why I wanted to do this. I wanted to do this relationship, just this nourish relationship. I wanted to do this episode further down the pipeline, but I was like, I gotta do this now because they don't understand. When I said be out here, I didn't mean just playing the field dating a bunch of women. I mean to come outside your fucking house and to deal with people. You gotta have heart. And y'all don't have heart. And if you don't have to have the heart to play the field, you goddamn sure don't have the heart to be in no monogamous relationship with no woman that you head over here about. You don't have the heart for it. You ain't equipped for that. That's way harder. It's much easier to deal with five women on some casual shit than to be dealing with one woman in a monogamous relationship. It's much harder to maintain a home than maintain an apartment. The home is worth it. It's worth it in the end. But to whom much is given, much is required. You understand? A good woman, a good relationship that's that edifies you, that grows you, that takes you to the next level, that provides you value, that's a lot. And again, that is not that is a luxury. That's a lot, that's a blessing. To whom much is given, much is required. So you can't just take that, don't appreciate it, don't know what to do with it, not you see what I'm saying, don't got the heart to be in it, don't know what to how to maintain it, don't know how to cultivate it, don't know how to make it grow. You just gonna fumble it. You're gonna fuck it up. So this why y'all don't get that type of shit. Because y'all don't understand that. I'm gonna say it again, to whom much is given, much is required. A good person on your corner and your team that's loyal, that's down for you, that sacrifices for you, that helps you build, that provides you value, that's a lot. Much is required to maintain that. A relationship like that, a healthy relationship that's stable, that's y'all think that that's your God given right. It's not. That's a fucking luxury. And it takes a lot to maintain that. It takes a lot to maintain your 10 holes that you think you're gonna have. It just takes a different type of thing. To whom much is given, much is required, period. That's why most people don't have shit. Because they ain't equipped to have shit. That's why a lot of you guys don't have money, because you don't know what to do. A lot of you guys can't get to $10,000 because you don't know what to do with $1,000. You can't even handle $1,000. If you want a lot, if you want something healthy, which is not your God given right, which is not owed to you, by the way, which is a luxury, if you want that, you have to be equipped to deal with it, maintain it, cultivate it. You see what I'm saying? Nurture it. That's how this game works. You guys want a healthy relationship, put in the fucking work. Get out here, live, date, date around, see what it comes with, get you disappointed, uh, learn how to get over a woman not texting you back, getting left on red, getting stood up, all this. That's the process. Y'all just jumping up. I feel good because I get y'all in the game. I get y'all the results. But y'all go straight to the end game and get smashed. Level up first, man. Level up. Because ain't nothing gonna stop you from running in that arena that you ain't equipped for. Life just gonna let your ass get smashed. That's why I'm here to help you. Like I told my guy. Hey, I'm not telling you don't give with that woman. I don't even know her. I don't know nothing about her, but I know you ain't ready for it. I know you ain't equipped for it. And I know you ain't gonna cut her off. But it's my duty as your mentor and your coach to game you up. So that's why I'm here. And that was too much game. But anyway, guys, like this video, subscribe, hit the notification bell. Also, hype it. 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