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She showed up excited. High interest. Ready to go. And then something happened. The vibe dried up, she pulled back, started checking the time, and you never even knew why. Most women will not tell you what you did wrong. They just go cold and leave. This video fixes that.
King Dre breaks down five behaviors that kill the vibe on a date, even when she came in hot and ready, starting with the most common and working toward the one most men are completely sleeping on.
Being cheap is not about the dollar amount. It is about the energy you display. Monitoring what she orders, complaining about prices, calculating the bill in your head while she sits across from you. She feels all of it, and it signals scarcity and insecurity immediately. Rambling off your achievements turns a date into a job interview. She did not show up to hear your resume. She showed up for connection, and every time you list your accolades you kill the romantic energy in the room. Discovery will always beat you announcing it. Performing and seeking approval is the one she feels the fastest, and a real student story drives the point home. A woman stopped him mid-date and told him verbatim that the performative energy turned her off, even though he was physically her type and she was ready. Most women will never give you that. He was lucky. Not being present wastes both your time. If she showed up and you are in your head chasing tactics, living in the future, or faking interest in the conversation, you are not there with her and she knows it. And being rude or mean to people does not signal strength. It signals insecurity, and it makes the entire environment uncomfortable. Strong men do not need to talk down to anyone.
Cut the bad behaviors. Show up as yourself. Keep the vibe alive.
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I bet you've killed dates and never even knew why. You showed up excited, high interest, ready to go, and then you did something. Some little thing you don't even think about. And the whole vibe just dried up. The coochie went dry right in front of you. You couldn't figure out what happened. One minute it was flowing. The next minute she pulling back, checking the time, ready to go home. She giving you the I gotta get up early tomorrow because I got work in the morning excuse. And here's the part that should bother you. She never told you what you did. Most women won't. They just go cold and they leave. And you go home thinking she just wasn't feeling it. Or you trying to use me for a date, or she's a professional dater, or she's just trying to use me up for my attention. No, you killed it. You just don't know how. So today I'm gonna walk you through the behaviors that kill the vibe on a date, that ruins the mood, the shit that dries up the coochie instantly. Even when she came in hot and ready. Are you ready? Let's get into the game. Now, before I get into the behaviors, I want you to understand something. Because if you soak this game up, you're gonna catch yourself doing the shit in real time. Every single one of these behaviors does the same exact thing underneath. It either breaks the connection or it signals something weak about you. It signals that you are weenie. A woman shows up to a date for a connection, for the possibility of intimacy and romance. That's what she's here for in general, generally speaking. So anything you do that kills that connection or make you look insecure, kills the whole reason she even came in the first place. I'm gonna give you five other behaviors. I'm going in order from the most common to the one that most of you guys are sleeping on. Now, the number one behavior that kills the energy and kills the vibe on a date is being cheap, being a penny pincher. And I need you to hear this part real carefully. Most women do not measure cheap by the dollar amount or the place that you take her, they measure it by the behavior that you display. Because being cheap signals scarcity and it signals insecurity. It gives broke. And it don't matter how good the date was going. The second you show her that energy, it dries up. She catches it immediately. So let me show you what cheap actually looks like to her. It's monitoring the orders. Damn, you gonna order that? It's obsessing over discounts, coupons, reward points, promo codes, that type of shit. It's complaining about the pricing. Damn, they charging too much for these drinks. How much that drink was? Damn, they trying to kill a nigga pockets. It's sitting there calculating and totaling and complaining as you go. It's complaining over the bill when the bills come. That's what I'm talking about. Now, if you're a frugal person, if you live below your means, or you're not a flashy or expensive person, I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about outwardly displaying that you're cheap or your penny pension. She feels all of that shit, every bit of it, and it ruins the vibe. So here's what I want you to do instead. If you can't afford the spot, don't go. It's simple. Plan before you go and actually know where you're going. And you never follow a woman's lead. And never let her pick the spot. Because what if she is trying to test your pockets and she's one of those or she a professional dater? Or what if you can't afford the spot that she picked? And what if the spot that she picked gives off the vibe that you're trying to impress her or you following her around? So you never let her pick the spot. And also, when the bill or the check comes, just peep it, pay it, and keep it moving. Me personally, I don't even look at the bill when it comes. And here's why. Because when the bill comes, the bill coming, it changes the energy and it completely shifts the vibe. You sitting there vibing, the waiter comes with the check, and the whole vibe just stops. The second you start looking it over, the vibe gonna shift. Not for the worse or for the better, but the energy is just gonna stop. So what I do, I just slide my car and I keep the vibe going, like this shit never happened. Because if I can't afford something, if I can't afford a spot, I'm not going. Period. Now, the second behavior that absolutely kills the mood and the vibe on a good date is rambling off your achievements and your success. She did not come to hear your resume, bro. Remember what we just talked about. She showed up for the connection, for the possibility of intimacy and romance, generally speaking. She did not show up to hear about your degrees, your promotions, and your accolades. Every time you list off your success, you kill the romantic energy in the room. You take something that was supposed to be a vibe and you turn it into a fucking interview. This is constantly bringing up your degrees, talking about your promotions, your accolades, bragging about what you did back in the days. You think you're impressing her, you think you're turning her on. But what you're really doing is drying up the vagina. So here's what I want you to do instead. Stop showing up, auditioning for a job. Connect. Have inclusive conversations. Flirt. Build an environment where sexual tension can actually thrive. Lead with you. Connect first. Y'all know it. Charm. Converse. Connect. Close. Let your success be the bonus, the cherry on top, not the goddamn main course. And if she asks you questions, you don't have to lie and you don't have to dumb yourself down. But you don't have to lead with your success either. Let her figure that shit out. Let her discover that shit on her own. Discovery will always beat you telling her every single time. It's just more effective that way. When she discovers it for herself, it means something. When you announce it, it sounds like you're bragging for brownie points. Now, the third behavior that absolutely ruins the mood and kills the vibe on a good date is approval seeking and performing, being a clown. And this one she's gonna feel the fastest, quicker than all the other ones. Why? Because people want genuine connection with genuine people. I want you to say this out loud, I don't care where you're at. Real men aren't clowns and clowns don't get the coochie wet. Real men do. I don't care where you at. Say it again out loud. Real men aren't clowns and clowns don't get the coochie wet. Real men do. Don't care how you're gonna look in front of other people. Just say it. Now, when you're performing, you telling her you don't think who you are is enough. And she feels it the moment you do it. So what does it look like? I know you're gonna ask, what does it look like? It's telling her what you think she wants to hear. It's talking about bullshit you don't even care about. And they pick up on that shit fast. Trust me. It's also trying to act more alpha or masculine than you really are. It's trying to fake the sexual energy or the player vibe, and that ain't really you trying to force tension that is not there. I'm gonna give you guys a quick story about one of my students. He went on a date doing this exact same shit, performing, saying what he thought she wanted to hear, talking about shit that he didn't even care about. And when he went to escalate, he rejected her. She stopped him and she told him this verbatim. She said, I can tell you being performing and just telling me what you think I want to hear. And it's kind of turning me off. It sucks because you're my type physically, and I'm a very sexual and freaky woman. He was devastated. He texted me that night at 11:30 p.m. devastated. And I called him the goofy that he was being. He ended up fixing it. But he had to admit that I was right about him performing. Now he didn't get hurt, but he fixed this game and he graduated the program successfully. Now, I want you to understand how rare that is. Most women will never tell you that in your face. They just gonna go cold and they're gonna leave you wondering. He was blessed. He got it straight from the horse's mouth. He had to believe me. The horse told him. She told him exactly what cost him that night. So instead of being a fucking clown, this is what I want you to do instead. Be yourself. Don't listen to these weenies. Be yourself, be confident who you are, express yourself. And if the vibe is there, express your desire. But if she clearly pushing back, don't force it. If she isn't receptive to your flirting and your advances, fall back. But express yourself. Just don't be a clown. And real quick, let me pause right here. Here's the thing about performing the reason guys do it is because they don't actually know what to do or say or how to really care themselves. So they fake it. That's exactly what the complete attraction system fixes. It covers physical attraction, it covers how to have a magnetic personality that's really you, a full text and workshop, and conversation starters that spark chemistry. So you can show up as yourself and still know how to move. It's very, very affordable right now. The link is in the description. The second link or the show notes, go grab it. Let's get back into the game. Now the fourth thing that absolutely kills the move on a date is not being in the moment. Intimacy and romance get built through experience and connection. And to have a good experience and actually connect, you have to be presence. It ain't rocket science. Remember why she's actually showing up. When you're not present, you're wasting her time and you're wasting your damn time too. Let's flip it around and put the shoe on the other foot. Imagine you're on a date with a woman and she in her phone the whole time, not paying attention all over the place, not paying attention to a word you say. That's exactly what you're doing when you check out. King Drake, what behaviors am I doing to show that I'm checking out? How do I fix it? Let me show you. I got you. Here's what checking out looks like. It's you living in the future. Living in the damn future. In your goddamn head. You may be trying to chase a milestone. I gotta break the touch barrier. I gotta escalate right here. I gotta take her back to my place. Living the moment is you trying to figure out how to win her over instead of just being there. Or you performing, clowning, same shit. You're not being present. You're in your phone, constantly checking your time if you're in a rush, nervous over talking, nervous joking, abruptly changing the subject to force some attraction tactic you saw online, faking interest and conversation when you really not even listening. So this is what I want you to do instead. And this is the most simple shit on the list. Be there, be engaged, let it flow. That's it. Stop trying to manage the date and just be in the date with her. Now I want you to lead, but I want you to be present. Don't micromanage every little thing that's in your head and every little tactic. Just be there, be present, lead. That's it. Now the fifth behavior that absolutely destroys the energy, the vibe, and the chemistry on the date. I'm talking about crushing it and it's slept on. It's being rude or mean to people. And we got to kill a myth first. A lot of weak, weenie, and wannabe guys think being a douchebag is what's attractive. They heard some girl that they was in the friend zone with crying over the mean douchebag guy, and they took it at face value. Let me explain what was really going on. He wasn't a douchebag because being a douchebag is attractive. He was a douchebag to her because he's not committing and giving her what she wants. He's not giving her the commitment in the relationship, and he's not being available. And what do women call guys who don't give them what they want? Assholes and douchebag. And your goofy ass saw that and thought you actually needed to be mean. No. Being rude to people creates emotional discomfort and it makes the whole environment tense and she can feel it. It also signals insecurity way more than it signals strength. Strong men, thoroughbred men, men securing themselves, real men, real niggas, don't need to talk down to people. Insecure men do to feel bigger or stronger. So what does that look like? It's being impatient with the staff, snapping at the waiter, getting an attitude because the food took too long, talking down to people, treating the busboy or the bartender like they beneath you, making scenes, causing a commotion over something small to look like you're in control, humiliating people, embarrassing somebody to look big in front of her. All of that goofy shit makes you look small. It's weenie shit. Now, do I really gotta tell you to treat everybody well and like a human being? Do I really have to tell you that respect is due to a dog? I hope not. But here goes some game. I'm gonna give you some game. Soak this up. When you treat everyone well, even better than you treat her, that's abundance. That's character. That's just who you are. Get a homeless man outside the same $50 you spent on a date. Tip the valet that same $50 right in front of her. That subconsciously shows her something. That same $50 I spent on you, I gave it to a bum. You're human, just like he's human. You're not special in my eyes, not yet. That has to be earned. She's not below the bum, but she's not above him either. She's human. Everybody on equal ground until they show me different. That's how you kick your game. That's real game. All right. That's the five behaviors that kill the vibe. Being cheap, rambling off your success, performing, and not being present, and being rude to people. But here's real talk. Let me give you some real talk real quick. Knowing what not to do and knowing what to do are two different things. Most guys will cut out one of these and then trip right over the next one because the date is a lot of moving parts. It's happening live in real time. While you're trying to keep the vibe alive, that is exactly what I fix in my coaching one-on-one. Tailored to you, your personality, your sticking points, your situation. I can get you there in eight weeks. Whether you want a girlfriend, whether you want consistent dates, whether you want consistent sex, I can get you there in eight weeks. And if you're not where you want to be in eight weeks, I will keep working with you at no additional cost until you are. The link is in the description. It's that first link. Hop on a call with my team. Let's get you to where you want to be. 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